Her Boyfriend Secretly Sent A Letter To His Ex Looking For Closure
For half a year now, this 25-year-old woman has been dating her 27-year-old boyfriend Alex. They have experienced highs and lows together, which mainly have stemmed from Alex’s clinginess.
They have argued a lot about Alex’s insecurities, which put a strain on their relationship, but she figured they were on the path of rebuilding.
While she was on social media recently, she received a follow request from Alex’s ex-girlfriend, whom he dated three years ago.
Initially, she didn’t know what to make of the request. Alex has told her his relationship with his ex was poisonous, and that’s why he left this girl.
She was about to ignore the request when she saw that Alex’s ex attached a message, and her curiosity got the best of her.
She opened up the message to find that Alex’s ex was accusing Alex of stalking her across several social media platforms before revealing Alex sent her a letter for closure.
She instantly became upset and asked Alex’s ex for proof that the closure letter existed. Alex’s ex sent her a copy of the letter, and she read it.
The letter was extremely personal and quite lengthy. She could tell the letter wasn’t exactly all about closure for Alex.
“The contents are not him pining over her, reminiscing about their relationship, or even trying to get back or reconnect with her,” she explained.
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“That itself was a relief. What I was NOT okay with was the fact that he didn’t tell me about it and there is no way to prove that he even planned to tell me. He compared our relationship to the one he had with her and talked about how badly he treated her and how sorry he was.”
“He also said that he’s learning from his relationship with me and learning to be a better person and better partner and that he wished she was doing well.”
The letter also stated Alex had recorded fights with his ex in an effort to make her look like the bad one in their relationship.
Alex’s ex said it made her uneasy that Alex did that, and Alex stated in the letter he knew it was wrong of him. The letter proved that the relationship Alex had with his ex was extremely toxic from both sides.
Alex did mention in his letter how long he’s been in a new relationship with her, so she can tell he wrote the letter very recently.
Now, the letter itself isn’t what bothers her. She’s upset that Alex never told her about it. She also finds it concerning that Alex is indeed stalking his ex across various socials, as his ex sent screenshots of this.
She hasn’t yet had the opportunity to talk to Alex about the letter since he’s on vacation with his family in another country, and she won’t see him until the end of the week.
“I know this changes the level of trust I have for him and whether this is something I believe we can look past, but I want to hear what others think about this,” she said.
“My main question is, what would you do in this situation and why? I feel as though I am underreacting here.”
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