His Girlfriend Blamed Him For Destroying Her Birthday After He Left Early Because She Invited Her Ex
Before this 28-year-old guy entered his 25-year-old girlfriend’s life three years ago, she had two previous relationships.
At the beginning of this year, his girlfriend received a random message from one of her exes, curious about how she was doing.
She owned up to the message and wanted to know if he would be cool with her responding. He didn’t lie; he affirmed finding it strange.
But there’s nothing he can do to prevent his girlfriend from speaking to people she wants to communicate with.
Lately, he’s been having a difficult time in a social sense, because many of his friends have moved away for their families or careers. As for his college friends, he barely sees any of them, as they live all across America.
He was confiding in his girlfriend about his struggles with friends, and she brought up grabbing drinks with her ex. Her ex had indicated that he wanted to speak to him over cocktails some evening.
“I said no and that I have no intention of being friends with her ex-boyfriend and that I’m not comfortable with going for drinks with him,” he explained.
“She didn’t mention it again. It was her birthday [over] the weekend, and she mentioned that she wanted to go for drinks with me and a large group of her friends.”
They booked a portion of a cocktail bar to celebrate, and on the night of his girlfriend’s birthday, everything was going great.
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But then, his girlfriend casually stated that she invited her ex to come out with them. He questioned his girlfriend about whether or not she was serious, and she confirmed it wasn’t a prank she was trying to play.
He emphasized how he felt about getting drinks with the guy before telling his girlfriend he disliked that she had no regard for his feelings. He couldn’t believe she did this anyway.
“I said it’s weird how insistent she is about drinking with her ex and that if he arrives, I’ll be leaving,” he added.
“She said I was being unfair, and then he arrived, so I walked off. A couple of her friends asked her why she had invited her ex.”
“Later that night, she got home and accused me of ruining her birthday, but I just pointed out she did it to herself by ignoring the fact I had already told her I wasn’t comfortable going for drinks with him.”
Do you think it’s weird that his girlfriend can’t grasp why he was uneasy about the surprise guest?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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