Her Husband Trash-Talked Her To His Friends, Saying Marrying Her Was A Mistake And That He Felt Trapped, So She Wants To Divorce Him
This 32-year-old woman and her husband, who’s 34, have been married for five years, and they share a son together. She also has another child from a past relationship.
“And I thought our marriage was mostly okay, like not perfect, but whose is? We have our challenges, like any couple. I never thought anything major was wrong,” she said.
Yet, one recent incident has left her devastated. It all began a couple of weeks ago when she and her husband had some of his friends over at their home for a barbecue.
Then, once everyone left, she realized her husband’s cell phone was on the kitchen counter. She typically wouldn’t even think about touching it, but then she saw a group chat notification pop up and a message containing her name.
At that point, curiosity got the best of her, and she decided to open her husband’s group chat. She only wanted to know what they were saying about her.
Unfortunately, she came face-to-face with what her husband truly thought of her, and it was horrible.
He apparently trash-talked her to all of his friends, claiming that he never should’ve married her and that their relationship was a “mistake.” Plus, her husband stated he felt “trapped” and called her “basically useless” since he had to do “everything.”
“He even said the only reason he married me was because he felt he had no choice after I got pregnant with our son,” she revealed.
She immediately felt like someone had punched her in the stomach and couldn’t believe her husband would ever talk about her like that to anyone, especially his friends. After all, they are people she sees on a regular basis.
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However, it’s obvious now that, the entire time, they’ve been hearing about how she’s supposedly a burden from her husband.
She decided to confront her husband about this, too, and he actually acted as if it was no big deal, shrugging the conversation off as “just guy talk.” He also told her not to take the messages “so personally.”
“He said all the guys vent about their wives and that it wasn’t serious. But how can I not take it personally? He said our whole marriage was a mistake. He said I was a mistake,” she explained.
She hasn’t been able to stop thinking about his hurtful words, either. To her, their whole marriage seems like a lie now, and perhaps her husband never loved her at all.
He, on the other hand, keeps urging her to “let it go” and accusing her of overreacting. Still, she has no idea how to move on from this.
“I’m seriously considering divorce, but now I’m wondering, am I overreacting? Is this normal? Do all guys talk like this about their wives, and I’m just being too sensitive?” she asked.
Finally, she’s not sure if divorcing her husband over this would be justified or going too far.
Could you ever look at your spouse the same way if they talked about you so terribly? What advice would you give her?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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