She Doesn’t Regret Telling Her Best Friend To Call Her Wedding Off
In a month and a half, this 27-year-old woman’s best friend Daisy is going to be marrying her fiancé, Max.
Max and Daisy have spent the last three years together, and she thinks they are a picture-perfect couple.
She’s always been a fan of Max and Daisy getting married until she attended Daisy’s bachelorette party.
Last week was the event, and Daisy wanted it to be low-key. So, Daisy invited her closest friends to have dinner with her at a tiny vineyard.
“She made a big show of pouring everyone a glass of the house red except for herself and took a huge sip of her water,” she explained.
“She was smiling at all of us as if we were already in on the joke, but we weren’t. But then, slowly, realization dawned, and she confirmed: she was pregnant. 2 months pregnant, to be exact. We were all happy for her, congratulating her, hugging, etc.”
“Then someone made one of those jokes about them having to get married just cause she’s pregnant, and she got all mischievous again. She then revealed that Max doesn’t know and that it was going to be a surprise. The reaction to this was mostly positive, which dumbfounded me.”
Now, she knows that Max and Daisy have been excited about having children in the future and that they have discussed this at length prior to deciding to have their wedding.
But she thinks that just because a couple wants to have children doesn’t give one of them the right to pick the timing alone.
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She feels like Daisy is just taking it upon herself to dictate everything and that it’s not fair to Max in the least.
“I don’t think you should marry someone when you’re keeping something that massive [of a] secret,” she said.
“I have no idea how she managed to keep it secret for 2 months anyways, but according to her, they’ve been so busy with the wedding planning it was easy to hide, and anything weird happening, like her vomiting, she just attributed to stress.”
When the party was over, she pulled Daisy aside for a heart-to-heart. She didn’t hold back as she poured her feelings out to Daisy.
She said she should honestly call off her wedding because of her pregnancy and added that she was coming from a place of looking out for her.
She finished the conversation by saying that if she was in Daisy’s shoes, she would want her to be honest.
Daisy fell silent before stating she had no right to insert herself into their marriage and that she could do whatever she wanted to.
“I pointed out that it shouldn’t be just ‘her decision’ that she was majorly affecting Max’s life too without even including him in the conversation and that she shouldn’t go through with the wedding if she was insistent on keeping him in the dark,” she added.
That further served to infuriate Daisy, who told her to go home and never reach out to her again. She respected Daisy’s wishes, but their mutual friends who were at the bachelorette party contacted her to give her a piece of their minds, so clearly Daisy told them about the conversation.
Some of their friends are siding with her, but the majority of them are calling her a jerk for destroying the happiest time in Daisy’s entire life.
The ones who are outraged think she didn’t have a right to tell Daisy to call her wedding off over her pregnancy.
“I don’t regret speaking up, but I’m worried that I might’ve ruined our friendship and am not even sure I’ll still be allowed to come to the wedding,” she continued. “Did I maybe overstep?”
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