He’s Hung Up On A Woman He Met In Paris, And He Ruined Their Romance After Saying They Weren’t Serious
This man is hung up on a woman he met in Paris and isn’t sure he’ll ever be able to get over her since their romance was that incredible.
He’s 25 and has been living in Paris for a few years. In 2022, he met a 23-year-old English woman in the city as an exchange student on a dating app. He began swooning over her after a memorable first date in a Parisian café.
Since both of their families were in other parts of the world, they spent the entire holiday season together, enjoying Christmas in Paris, going on more exciting outings, and growing quite fond of each other.
One day, while hanging out and laughing, she asked him the famous “What are we?” question.
“Since the mood was not serious at all at that moment, I gave her the stupidest answer you can think of,” he recalled.
“I said, ‘We’re two people who like to have fun together,’ even though I liked her so much and my romantic intentions were serious.”
After he downplayed their relationship, things became awkward between him and his date. She continued to text him in the following days, but her tone was colder, and he found it harder to make plans with her.
Weeks before she was due to return to England for school, they had an intense conversation where she suggested they try to be friends instead of entering something more committed.
Ekaterina Pokrovsky – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
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“I said that I can’t be just friends with her after everything we had and that she can give me a call if she changes her mind,” he remembered.
“She said maybe after a week, she might miss and call me. We hung up. She didn’t call me after that, and I was removed from her social media.”
Months into their breakup, he couldn’t get her off his mind and was hardly interested in dating anyone else.
Last summer, when he knew she’d be back home, he decided to reach out to her again and offered to visit her in England.
They had one great night in her hometown, catching up and reminiscing on their time in Paris, but for the rest of his trip, she ignored him and blew off their plans, stating she didn’t want to see him anymore because she had no interest in being long-distance.
He saw her once since then, when she was in Paris for a few days in the fall, and they had a pleasant dinner. But she made it clear that they still couldn’t be together romantically.
“It felt like physical pain, and I couldn’t focus on work the next day,” he admitted.
“Since then, many times I have felt that I am over her, only to discover that I’m wrong. That she’s always invading my thoughts.”
What advice do you have for him regarding moving on from this short-lived romance?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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