He Uninvited His Mom From His Wedding After She Threw A Drink At His Fiancée During Their Engagement Dinner
It can be really upsetting and uncomfortable when your parent doesn’t like the person you want to spend your life with.
One man recently had to uninvite his mom from his upcoming wedding on the night of his engagement dinner after his mom threw her drink at his fiancée.
He has been engaged to his fiancée, Becky, for two years and will finally marry her this year.
Unfortunately, when he and Becky first got engaged, his mom wasn’t very supportive as she was going through an awful divorce.
His mom’s divorce was extremely messy, involving cheating and gaslighting, and she simply didn’t have the mental wherewithal to show enthusiasm towards him and Becky.
While his mom‘s lack of support was disappointing, he knew she was struggling, so he tried letting it go.
However, his mom’s lack of enthusiasm quickly turned into a lot of judgmental comments.
“There was a little passive aggression, such as murdering under her breath that it shouldn’t take two years to plan a wedding,” he recalled. “[She’d ask], ‘Who needs an engagement party and an engagement dinner?’ She was just being so negative.”
Things came to a head during his and Becky’s engagement dinner when his mom acted strange the whole night. His mom was pale in the face and hardly spoke to anyone. She also barely touched her food, and he knew he needed to talk to her because of her behavior.
Denys – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual person
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“She seemed dazed the whole night, just staring almost in a trance,” he explained.
“Then, out of nowhere, she took her drink and just doused Becky.”
He suddenly became furious and screamed at his mom for what she did, but she hardly reacted. Becky began crying, and everyone began comforting her.
Everyone at the party was concerned about his mom’s behavior and the fact that she hardly responded to what she had just done.
He finally got his mom to talk to him. She simply said she didn’t know why she threw the drink. A little while after the engagement dinner, he limited his contact with his mom, and she visibly started getting better. She seemed a bit more upbeat and gained some weight back.
Eventually, his mom also met a new guy, and things looked a lot better for her.
He was extremely angry with her because even though she had gotten better, she refused to acknowledge her throwing a drink at Becky and why she did it.
“If she threw it at me, I would’ve let it go, but to throw it at Becky [was ridiculous],” he added.
“My mom has apologized but [claims] she doesn’t remember that night or why she did it. My sister says we need to let it go, but I can’t, and Becky can’t, so my mom is not invited to the wedding.”
Should he reconsider inviting his mom, or was the incident too intense?
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