His Wife Secretly Planned A Weekend Getaway With A Guy She Met Online, But She Lied And Said It Was A Nannying Job
Sadly, this 38-year-old man witnessed his 35-year-old wife planning a weekend getaway with some guy she met on the internet.
Now, his wife recently told him that she landed a nannying gig for a wealthy family, and they required her to be with them for a whole weekend.
She let him know about the rate of pay, which seemed amazing, and he was thrilled. He and his wife could really use that enormous chunk of change the family agreed to pay.
But it turns out his wife lied about the whole thing, and he found out after he spotted some texts on her phone.
His wife has been texting a man who is a lot older than she is, and she sent him some steamy photos, too.
So, instead of going away for a weekend nannying job, she was planning a weekend getaway with this guy.
He instantly brought the evidence to his wife, who started sobbing and saying sorry. She admitted to him that she met this guy online and had actually gone out for coffee with him one time.
He’s been with his wife for 13 years, and they have three little kids. While their marriage isn’t all rainbows and unicorns, he’s done his best to be there for his wife.
His wife is a stay-at-home mom, and she’s been pretty moody, throwing temper tantrums lately over nothing, so he has been suspicious that something’s been going on with her: he just never imagined it would be another guy.
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“The kicker here is, I love her more than life itself,” he explained. “When she broke down crying, I comforted HER.”
“She swore she wasn’t really going to go (she is the biggest flaker on things like this, so not a stretch), and she was just doing it for attention.”
“I was initially ANGRY and not sad – we talked and hung out that entire day, and she said this has made her realize how much I did love her and how much she loved me. The next 2 weeks were the best 2 weeks of my life – she was loving, caring, supportive – I honestly was so happy I forgot about it most of the time.”
However, he learned that his wife hasn’t been honest about how long she’s been talking to this other man – they have been carrying on for nearly an entire year, so he finds it weird she promises she only met up with him one time.
His wife lied to him and said she only spoke to this man for a handful of weeks. Then, when he uncovered the truth, she said she just forgot about how long she had been speaking to him since it was meaningless.
He pulled his wife’s cellphone records and pieced together a ton of text messages and phone calls from numbers he didn’t recognize. He was able to find out who two of those numbers were, but not the rest.
His wife is saying those messages and calls are spam, but he can see that she talked to one number for 20 minutes at 9 p.m. one night.
Adding to the weirdness, his wife said she was offered another job as a nanny months ago, but they couldn’t make it work, and he’s worried this was an attempt to meet up with the guy she’s been talking to or another man entirely.
This all went down a few months ago, and since then, he’s felt pretty needy, which is unusual for him. His wife has also blocked his ability to check her phone records.
“It’s been 3 months since the initial revelation, and it honestly feels like before – she is pushing me away and doesn’t want to spend any time with me, which is the only thing I have asked for – just for us to spend solo time together,” he added.
“I am running out of options here – I love this woman more than anything, and I love the life we have built with our kids as well. But it seems like she doesn’t care that this whole situation has completely broken me more than I ever thought possible – she pretends it never happened, TBH.”
“I brought up marriage counseling (absolutely not) and suggesting we talk to work things out, but apparently, that’s “suffocating” her. I don’t want to split up my family, and I love her and want to be with her, but I am totally lost. How can I not think she cheated/has been doing this all along, as she shows no remorse anymore? And what the heck do I do now?”
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