Her Boyfriend Spit In Her Face As They Were Arguing One Night
Two months ago, this 20-year-old girl gave birth to her first child, and usually, her baby wakes up at 3 a.m.
When her baby gets up, she hurries to the kitchen, located on the first floor of her house, to make a bottle. She then changes her baby’s diaper before feeding her.
Three evenings ago, when her baby got up, she was wiped out. So, she asked her 23-year-old boyfriend if he could help her change the baby while she went to get her bottle.
Her boyfriend agreed, and when she came back from making the bottle, her boyfriend hadn’t done anything.
Her baby was crying, and her boyfriend said the baby didn’t need to be changed. She checked, and her baby absolutely did need a diaper change, so she was angry with him.
“I just needed the extra help that night,” she explained. “I said to him, “You could’ve checked her nappy properly,” and he said that he did, made an annoyed sound, and rolled over back to bed.”
“I got in bed and started feeding baby, and about 5 minutes later, he randomly gets up and starts dressing without saying anything despite me asking what his problem was. He slams the door shut and storms downstairs, and I can hear him yelling, “I hate you,” “You’re trying to make me out to be a bad father,” and more.”
“I didn’t think my comment was a big deal, so I’m confused and tired and still feeding [the] baby, so I decide to deal with him after [the] baby falls back asleep.”
She put her baby back to sleep and headed downstairs. Her boyfriend accused her of making him out to be a terrible parent, and they began arguing.
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He then threatened to leave, and she just went back upstairs since she was tired of him saying that yet again. Every time they disagree, her boyfriend instantly says he’s leaving her.
Her boyfriend began packing up his belongings, so she called her mom to say she would be coming over, as she didn’t want to be at home while her boyfriend was acting like this.
As soon as she hung up the phone, her boyfriend started shouting that she will never see him ever again. She yelled back that he should just go.
“He gets right in my face and spits on me while still yelling,” she said. “I try to leave the situation by going downstairs, but he follows me and basically is still yelling, saying I’m the problem.”
“By this time, I’m crying and exhausted, and he ends up apologizing, and we go back to bed. Having a new baby, I don’t think I’ve been able to process my emotions much, and throughout being postpartum with my hormones out of sync, he hasn’t been the most understanding partner and has lashed out every time I have one moody moment even though I am trying my best.”
“I guess I’m in need of advice or an outsider’s perspective, as I don’t have many people to talk to.”
What advice do you have for her?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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