He’s Considering Leaving His Fiancée Because She Doesn’t Like His Kids Or Make Any Effort To Support Them
When you choose to get engaged to someone who has children from a previous marriage, you must be prepared to form the best relationship with those children you can.
While no one is perfect, it’s clear when someone is and isn’t putting in effort with kids.
One man is considering leaving his fiancée because he finally realized she doesn’t treat his sons nicely, even though he treats her daughters like they’re his own.
He and his fiancée have been together for three years, and each have children from a previous marriage. She has two daughters, and he has three sons, ages 15, 12, and five.
For a while, he thought everything was going well with their soon-to-be blended family. His boys stay with him and his fiancée when they’re not with their mom, and he has formed a good relationship with her daughters.
But recently, he’s paid much more attention to how his fiancée interacts with his boys and noticed some major red flags.
“She only interacts with my middle son [and] I’m pretty sure she doesn’t like my youngest because she hates his mom even though he’s the sweetest and most well-behaved of the three,” he explained.
His oldest is currently experiencing some mood swings since he’s going through that awkward stage.
He found this to be quite surprising, considering his fiancée treats her girls like they’re her entire world, even though they have behavioral issues of their own.
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He’s noticed that whenever his boys are at their house, which is usually on weekends, she pretends she was called into work unexpectedly or stays in their bedroom all day to avoid talking to them.
Meanwhile, he treats her daughters like they’re his own, and they’ve become quite attached to him.
Anytime he’s tried pointing out these issues with his fiancée, she gets very angry and defensive. Then, she carries on doing what she’s been doing.
“I always have supported the girls equally to my own boys, birthday presents, school events, quality time, everything,” he said.
“But recently, I took notice that she hasn’t even raised a finger to come to their graduations, birthday parties, or anything even though she was invited.”
All of these red flags started making him think he may have chosen the wrong partner. Then, he had a heart-to-heart with his sons about the engagement, and they revealed they could not stand her.
Therefore, he’s decided that since his boys don’t feel like they’re at home or family members whenever they visit him, it’s probably time to end things.
Should he feel bad about ending his engagement, or is it the right thing to do?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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