132 Domestic Violence Calls, 37 Arrests In Hillsborough In 2024
HILLSBOROUGH, NJ — Each year Patch shines a light on an issue many may not want to talk about — domestic violence. It happens everywhere, even in Hillsborough.October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month and it's time to shed some light on this and help our neighbors, friends, and family members who are suffering in silence.On average, nearly 20 people per minute are physically abused by an intimate partner in the United States. During one year, this equates to more than 10 million women and men, according to National Coalition Against Domestic Violence, a 501 nonprofit organization.Patch took a look at the number of calls associated with domestic violence in Hillsborough.The number of domestic violence(DV) incidents has decreased this past year so far since it hit a high during the pandemic in Hillsborough:Here is a breakdown of the domestic violence(DV) statistics in Hillsborough:YearDV CallsArrests2024(as of Oct. 17)13237202319031202227853202134858202021439201921949201824440Hillsborough Police Captain Scott W. Mc Carthy told Patch that in 2024 "simple assault and criminal mischief are the majority of the arrests."Need Help?Safe+Sound Somerset offers a 24-hour hotline at 866-685-1122 that is fully staffed, with English and Spanish speakers, for those in need."Since 1978, Safe+Sound Somerset has been answering the call of domestic violence survivors – often literally – with calls to our 24/7 helpline that are the first step in breaking free from the domestic violence and sexual abuse for many who are being beaten, battered, and berated. We hear it and see it every day – and we are here to help every survivor every day," according to safe-sound.org.Safe+Sound Somerset is the only organization in Somerset County providing comprehensive services to survivors of domestic and sexual violence. Their compassionate, evidence-based/informed programs are designed to provide safety, hope and healing to survivors and their children; and to educate, interrupt, and stop intimate partner violence by leveraging our expertise and advocating within systems to create safe spaces for all.What Traits Do Abusers Have in Common?There is no one typical, detectable personality of an abuser. However, they do often display common characteristics.An abuser often denies the existence or minimizes the seriousness of the violence and its effect on the victim and other family members.An abuser objectifies the victim and often sees them as their property or sexual objects.An abuser has low self-esteem and feels powerless and ineffective in the world. He or she may appear successful, but internally, they feel inadequate.An abuser externalizes the causes of their behavior. They blame their violence on circumstances such as stress, their partner's behavior, a "bad day," on alcohol, drugs, or other factors.An abuser may be pleasant and charming between periods of violence and is often seen as a "nice person" to others outside the relationship.What Are the "Warning Signs" of an Abuser?Red flags and warning signs of an abuser include but are not limited to:Extreme jealousyPossessivenessUnpredictabilityA bad temperCruelty to animalsVerbal abuseExtremely controlling behaviorAntiquated beliefs about roles of women and men in relationshipsForced sex or disregard of their partner's unwillingness to have sexSabotage of birth control methods or refusal to honor agreed upon methodsBlaming the victim for anything bad that happensSabotage or obstruction of the victim's ability to work or attend schoolControls all the financesAbuse of other family members, children or petsAccusations of the victim flirting with others or having an affairControl of what the victim wears and how they actDemeaning the victim either privately or publiclyEmbarrassment or humiliation of the victim in front of othersHarassment of the victim at workFor anonymous, confidential help available 24/7, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY) now.Have a news tip? Email [email protected] article 132 Domestic Violence Calls, 37 Arrests In Hillsborough In 2024 appeared first on Hillsborough, NJ Patch.
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