She Wants To Divorce Her Husband After He Skipped Out On Getting Back Surgery
This 40-year-old woman and her 41-year-old woman have both sustained injuries to their backs. She went to physical therapy for her multiple injuries and improved. She is currently a bodybuilder and had to work exceptionally hard to get her body back after having children.
Meanwhile, her husband has spent the last two decades avoiding work while blaming his back. He will claim on a daily basis he can’t mow the lawn or help with their kids since he might hurt himself.
Now, she hurt her back doing the things her husband complained about, and her husband’s all too happy to burden her in order to save himself.
“Fast-forward to last year, his disks start breaking down, and he has constant pain,” she explained.
“So then he helps even LESS than before. Around the same time my back was injured from doing the things that had to be done that he never tried to help with. We both signed up for PT.”
“I went every week and did the workouts at home. He went once and gave up. My back got better his didn’t.”
She also went on to drop twenty pounds, and her 18-year-old son became her bodybuilding coach to help her improve her health further.
She has been passionate about fitness throughout her whole life, but after giving birth to her twins six years ago, it was hard to make the time, especially with her husband refusing to help with them.
This all leads us to now: her husband’s back has gotten so bad that he can’t bend down in the least.
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They finally went to a consultation with a surgeon and booked her husband to have surgery to get his back fixed.
Her husband went in on the morning of his surgery, and as he was getting prepped, he literally got up and walked out.
Her husband promises the pain isn’t that bad, so his plan is to keep doing what he’s been doing. Not only is her husband content with failing to help around the house or with their kids, but he’s fine with not doing anything to improve his situation.
“It seems like he really just wants to use it as an excuse, and I’m so over it,” she said. “I’m already doing everything myself. Why should I be carrying around his dead weight, too?”
“Yesterday, I was showing off my progress, wearing pants two sizes smaller than last year and muscle definition in my whole body, and while I was excitedly bouncing around in my smaller clothes, he asked if I was drunk and told me I look silly.”
“I told him I don’t really care what he thinks anymore. Not going to let him put me down and mock me for working on myself while he sits on his behind doing nothing.”
So, here she is, wondering if she should finally pull the trigger and file for divorce. What advice do you have for her?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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