His Stepdaughter Says She’s Madly In Love With Him, So He Thinks He Has No Choice But To Leave His Wife
For the last 13 years, this man has been with his wife, and back when he met her, her daughter was only 3-years-old.
He never had a problem with his stepdaughter until she entered her adolescent years and started to get really touchy-feely with him.
“She would pretend to kiss me by quickly bringing her mouth close to mine, play footsie with me under the table, ask me to scratch her back, and then ask me to go lower, in short, completely inappropriate behavior,” he explained.
Now, his stepdaughter’s harassment has gotten so bad he says he feels as if he’s living with a demon out to get him.
He and his wife have undergone therapy with his stepdaughter for years in an effort to fix things, but it hasn’t worked.
In their therapy sessions, his stepdaughter insisted she was head over heels in love with him and wanted to spend her whole life with him.
The therapist began to think he was somehow abusing his stepdaughter, but he was doing no such thing.
Later on, his stepdaughter received a diagnosis of borderline personality disorder. Today, he and his wife are wondering what on earth they can do because things have only gotten worse, not better.
He has a 6-year-old daughter with his wife, and he can honestly admit that if he didn’t have a child with her, he would have left her already.
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“It’s becoming unbearable. I’ve tried yelling, explaining, crying, ignoring—it doesn’t work,” he said.
“Sometimes, I have to pick her up from school, and all her friends know about it. She tells everyone that she’s crazy about me, which leads to extremely unpleasant situations when I meet other parents at school meetings or events (I don’t attend them anymore, by the way).”
“Three days ago, I got violent with her; I slapped her with the back of my hand when she touched my thighs while I was driving. I went…nuts, telling her…that she was destroying our family…I went berserk.”
His stepdaughter just smiled back at him amid his meltdown. His stepdaughter won’t turn 18 for another year, so they can’t get her out of the house right now.
He knows there are a few legal things he could try to get his stepdaughter to leave him alone, but his wife won’t back him up.
He thinks his wife wants him to walk away at this rate. His wife is utterly depressed, and he is too. Sometimes, he doesn’t come home from work and goes over to his brother’s home to get a break from the chaos.
Last Friday, he was the only one at home because his wife, his stepdaughter, and his daughter went on a trip together.
He went onto his stepdaughter’s laptop since she snaps photos of him like she’s the paparazzi. He found his stepdaughter has an entire file on her computer filled with dozens of photos of him.
He documented the evidence, and when everyone arrived back home later that night, he didn’t bother saying anything. He was too exhausted to fight that battle.
“I’m losing my mind, and our poor little girl has to live in this nightmare; I’m…crying,” he added. “I want this demon to disappear.”
“I feel like even if she leaves the house, my marriage is over; I sometimes feel like my wife thinks I did something to make this happen; it’s killing me. I didn’t do [anything]. She’s just…nuts.”
“I don’t know how this will end, but I don’t see any happy ending. If someone here has a bright idea, feel free to tell me because I’m actually losing my mind.”
Tomorrow morning he’s going to be meeting with a lawyer, and he took his daughter to stay with him at his brother’s house in the meantime. Oh, and he brought his stepdaughter’s laptop with him to show the lawyer.
When he informed his wife that he was leaving, she didn’t say anything. As he got in the car and drove away, she called him up sobbing so hard it took her 10 minutes to get real words out.
His wife said she felt like she’s trapped and can’t choose between him and his stepdaughter.
He simply does not care what choice his wife wants to make; he’s going to do whatever it takes to protect himself and his daughter.
What advice do you have for him?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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