She Thought She Was Going To Dinner With Her Husband’s Friend And His Wife, But She Wound Up Meeting His Friend’s Mistress, And It Left Her Feeling Unsettled About Her Own Husband
This 25-year-old woman and her 30-year-old husband recently went out to dinner with one of his friends, who he often talked about and she’d never gotten to meet.
Her husband claimed that his friend was married and had kids. His friend was often inviting them out, too, but since she is a stay-at-home mom without a big support system, it was tough.
Obviously, though, she was able to arrange childcare to attend dinner the other night, which started off wonderfully.
Her husband stated his friend’s “girl” was going to be there, who she assumed was his friend’s wife. And she and the woman clicked basically immediately.
“Most of my husband’s friends are bachelors, so I found it cool that he’s friends with this couple I can relate more to. We even planned a trip during the dinner, and they showed us all the amazing places they’ve traveled to,” she recalled.
However, when it came time to leave, they all walked out of the restaurant, and it was cold outside; meanwhile, her husband’s friend’s “girl” was in the bathroom.
Given how cold she was, she told her husband’s friend, “Say bye to your wife. It was really nice to meet her.”
To her complete surprise, her husband’s friend just looked at her, laughed, and responded, “She’s not my wife.”
At that moment, she realized her husband’s friend had brought his mistress instead of the mother of his kids to their dinner.
Maksim Toome – stock.adobe.com – illustrative purposes only, not the actual people
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She was speechless upon getting in the car with her husband, and he didn’t understand what was wrong. She pressed him for more information on his friend’s situation, and she found out he was supposedly in an arranged marriage.
So, according to her husband, it was “different,” and that was the girl his friend “actually loves and takes everywhere.”
“That doesn’t make me feel better at all because a lot of our arguments are about me feeling like the trophy wife, holding it down at home while he’s living his best life with his bachelor friends,” she explained.
She already knew at least two of her husband’s other friends openly cheated on their wives. And when she’d expressed her feelings about that, her husband stated he was in no position to judge them.
Anyway, she wound up telling her husband it was horrible that most of his friends get to have a “wifey” at home who cares for the kids while they play the field.
“And that if it was me [who was] always hangout out with cheaters, he would feel some type of way, too,” she added.
She’s also finding it hard to believe that her husband is really any different from his cheating friends if he chooses to associate with them. After all, her closest friends are “good women with good values,” and she could never hang out with unfaithful people. She just cannot relate to them.
“So, at this point, I’m just not buying it that he’s the only one different in his friend’s circle,” she admitted.
Regardless, her husband is actually angry at her now, accusing her of ruining their evening based on his friend’s love life, which is out of his control. She can’t help but feel really stupid, either, and she’s not sure if judging her husband over this is justified or not.
Would you want your spouse to socialize with cheaters? Can you understand why she’s unsettled? What advice would you give her?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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