She’s Refusing To Help Pay For Her Sister’s Wedding Anymore Since She Wasn’t Even Included In The Bridal Party
It’s the worst when you do so much for a friend or family, and they don’t do the bare minimum to thank you or make you feel appreciated.
One woman offered to help her sister, a bride-to-be, cover some of her wedding expenses but took back her offer when she was excluded from the bridal party.
She’s 26 and has a 29-year-old sister who will be getting married in a few months. She and her sister have been close since they were little, so when her sister got engaged, she couldn’t have been more thrilled.
Before her sister even announced who would be in her bridal party, she immediately began fulfilling maid of honor roles, helping her plan and even offering to pay for certain aspects of the wedding. She has a good job in finance and wanted to use some of her money to support her sister.
Then, things quickly took a turn and went downhill.
“A couple of weeks ago, we had a family dinner where my sister announced her bridal party,” she explained.
“To my shock, she introduced her best friend as her maid of honor and included three other friends as bridesmaids. I wasn’t even mentioned.”
She asked her sister why she wasn’t included as a member of the bridal party, and her sister gave her lame excuses.
She said her best friend was “more deserving” of the maid of honor role and that she wanted to keep the rest of the bridal party small and simple.
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While she tried to put her feelings aside, she was hurt by what her sister did, and being excluded from her bridal party bothered her.
To make matters worse, after the family dinner, her sister acted like nothing was wrong and continued to ask her to spend more money on things for her wedding, like the photographer and venue deposit.
“I told her that I felt disrespected and that I wasn’t comfortable paying for the wedding anymore,” she recalled.
“She got upset and said that I was being petty and that, as her sister, I should understand and support her decisions. My parents have called me, saying I’m ruining her big day and should just let it go and help her out.”
Should she reconsider giving her sister some money for her wedding or stand her ground?
You can read the original post on Reddit here.
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