Look, should the bar be this low? No. But look, we’re talking about dudes here, okay? It is what it is. Anyway, the point is that there’s a difference—however subtle!—between a guy who wants to hang out and one who wants you around. Someone who wants you around will let you chill at his place all weekend instead of sending you home right after morning sex. He might even actually say things like, “Stay as long as you want” or low-key-high-key “joke” about wanting you to “move in.” Y’know, that kinda thing.